STOP SELLING OUT YOUR GENDER

Hi guys, this is one basic problem in our society. Almost everyman is guilty of this, a man's attempt to impress women sells out his dignity, his confidence and his self esteem. How ?  OK I will tell you, he stops being himself , speaking his mind , giving his opinion, and making decisions as a real man should. This self-emasculation only gives life to the idea that a man must bow down , work like a dog and prove himself worthy to the women he dates. Forget about whether he's a good man or a stand up guy. Impressing women is about what you can do for them and not about who you are.

Trying to impress women so that they will date you, sleep with you, stay with you etc. Still it may even seem like the logical thing to do in that bar or club or on that first date. Maybe you say something smart and try to look worldly and deep ( this actually irritates most women). Maybe you rent or borrow a nice car to show up in. Or maybe you spend more than you can afford one dinner. Whatever your trick is, you are trying to impress a woman , and that is the worst thing to do. Why? Because slowly but surely, you are doing your gender a disservice. Your attempts  to impress women are really grovelling and you're perpetuating the myth the myth that guys should have to stop please.

Once you start down that road of trying to impress women, you do not become their equal; you become their lap dog. There was a time when men were men and talked to women instead of trying to impress them. Somewhere along the way, fellas began to believe that putting women on pedestals was the only way to get their attention. Nah nah..putting them on some make believe podium will really push them away and leave you a nutless disapointment to mankind. " well if I shouldn't impress her, what should I do instead?" Just be yourself with your own confidence. Most men run around with hooks in their cheeks and leashes on their necks trying to please some woman or another. Be you brother. Any woman worth talking to will communicate with the real you, a man who stands up straight and speaks his mind. Impressing her will only leave you a slave. With all the talk of equality and role reversal, try this: instead of submitting to women for their approval, guys should be waiting for women to put their own dignity and self respect on the line. We are past this stage if your still guilty you need to get to a self respect rehabilitation clinic .. LOL

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